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When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda (English Edition) di [Ballard, Zari]
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What is the narcissism epidemic?

When our partner is a narcissist, only those who've actually experienced the madness will ever understand what we're going through. When Love Is a Lie is a straight-up, tell-all book about narcissism in relationships that skips the clinical bullshit to focus solely on the personalexperience. A narrative that holds nothing back, Zari Ballard's storywill educate, enlighten, and empower you to evaluate (and fullyunderstand) the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship.Compare her story to your own and watch what happens. As it has forthousands of abuse victims worldwide, When Love Is a Lie is going to resonate with you in ways that no other book about narcissism ever has.

Any relationship involving a person with a narcissistic personalitydisorder will inevitably take a dark turn. We stay in the relationshipthinking we can fix this person or love him/her out of their badbehavior but the truth is that narcissists, sociopaths and psychopathscan never be fixed - not with love, therapy, or any magic pill. Lifequickly becomes a roller coaster ride from hell with Lucifer himself atthe controls. If that sounds dramatic, then you've never loved anarcissist. If that sounds familiar, then this very special book mayjust change your life.

When Love Is A Lie breaks down the signs of a narcissistic personality, exposes the narcissist's way of thinking, and explains exactly why a partner with a narcissistic personality will....

  • ..over time, deliberately and methodically manage down your expectations ofthe relationship so that you expect less and less and he gets away withmore
  • ..mimic the appropriate emotions at opportune times to achieve desired results

  • ..use the silent treatment, disappearances/reappearances, and otherdemoralizing (and passive-aggressive) control tactics to punish thosewho dare to call him/her out on questionable behaviors
  • ..create constant narcissistic chaos and turmoil even - and especially - duringthe "good" times as a way of keeping you in a heightened state ofco-dependent anxiety 24/7

  • ..juggle many relationships at once - sometimes for years on end - with no one being the wiser, not even you
Narcissist abuse is often intentionally passive-aggressive so that we never quiteunderstand what's happening. Friends and family try to be supportive but they simply don't get it. This book, from its very first pages, offers a reprieve from this isolation. When Love is a Lie will make youlaugh and it may even make you cry but, above all else, it will provideconfirmation and validation that YOU are not the problem.

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Zari is a full-time, home-based Freelance Writer/Author (and single mom) residing in sunny Tucson, AZ. Readers can soon expect three new additions to Zari's Amazon Bookshelf (alongside "When Love is a Lie") - a companion workbook ("Stop Spinning, Start Breathing") on narcissistic abuse recovery, a memoir about her son's struggle with mental illness, and a fictional Kindle novel about the end times. Be sure and stay tuned!

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13 di 13 persone hanno trovato utile la seguente recensione
5.0 su 5 stelle SHE NAILED IT! 23 agosto 2016
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Ok, I only just STARTED reading this book, but I feel compelled to rate it 5+ stars! THAT'S how spot-on accurate it is. My name is Blank, and I WAS struggling through my FINAL breakup with a narcissist. I WAS going crazy trying to quit obsessively thinking about him, even though I knew my soul would die if he remained in my life. Thanks to this book, I am done, my mind is free; I FINALLY understand.

To Zari: Thank you for saving my precious life. To readers: WHAT SHE SAID. Now, I'm going to continue reading this book. It is simply manna from heaven; the author, my guardian angel.
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3.0 su 5 stelle Truth in disguise 16 aprile 2017
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Accurate to a degree... However, not every N disappears for weeks on end or changes their phone number. I was involved for seven years, four of which were as a married couple with a child together. My N did do many of the behaviors the author describes, but honestly, had I caught my man in the act or had him disappear for weeks on end I would have caught on immediately. My N is what is consideted as a covert narc, and therefore much more difficult to unmask. I liked this book for its candidness, but it didnt touch on the SPECTRUM of NPD, and how there are many different degrees, levels, and behaviors that can be seen in these people. My own N was as cold and callous as they get, but used stonewalling and physical abuse, as well as a claim of having been diagnosed with PTSD, as his reason for the atrocious acts he committed.

Bottom line: There are many forms and variations of NPD, and that mine didnt portray the long absences or constant phone number changes does not mean he was not on the NPD spectrum. It just means he was a different level on the spectrum. So I think its important that readers understand this is only one of many examples of what NPD can look like. It doesnt have to be obvious to be true.
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5.0 su 5 stelle Like Zari Ballard 25 marzo 2015
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Like Zari Ballard, I'm both a writer and a professional musician. I just finished writing what I call a "porn-erotic" novel about the narcissist whom I came to love after the suicide of my husband. The funny thing is that, until I read WHEN LOVE IS A LIE, I didn't realize that my ex-boyfriend had a sociopathic disorder. I didn't realize he had a classic case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I thought there was something terribly wrong with me, an attractive, accomplished, loving woman who, by hook or by crook, couldn't get my charming, complicated man to love me no matter how much I did for him and how much I even compromised my own standards. Through reading Zari's book, I learned that there was nothing I could do to change my narcissist. I started listening to Linda Ronstadt's love songs which were often about men who were unable to love, and I started educating myself about NPD. If only I had known about NPD, I think my own novel would have been more coherent and more understandable. Yet, I have to thank Zari for convincing me that I wasn't crazy to let a narcissist into my world ... I just was too blind to see and too loving in order to realize that nothing I could do would improve the situation. I'm proud to say that I am in the process of No Contact and I don't even have any desire to contact my ex. I'm happily married now to a man who knows the meaning of the word "love." Unfortunately, my relationship with my N left emotional scars and my new husband isn't having an easy task in convincing me that I am, in fact, an attractive and desirable woman.
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5.0 su 5 stelle I just got out of a horrible relationship with a sociopath 11 marzo 2017
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I just got out of a horrible relationship with a sociopath. I have scoured the Internet reading everything I can...this book is DEAD ON and has touched on aspects of my former relationship that I never even realized anybody else would comprehended. If that makes sense. I have not been able to relate to anyone, no one has a clue what I just went through. This book has made me feel welcomed and strong and I finally feel like I have the upper hand with all of this knowledge. It has significantly improved my perspective and my heartbreak. The author is awesome!! :)
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5.0 su 5 stelle They are attractive, dark, and mysterious - and they will destroy you if you get too close... 29 maggio 2017
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For a lay perspective, this book was very informative as to how the average person gets lured into the black hole of the narcissist/sociopath/psychopath's (N/S/P) existence; and whirls helplessly around the event horizon - as if being pulled in and held mercilessly by a gravitational force from which there seems no escape. A place where time is warped, where personal boundaries are continually under attack, and where deceit, subterfuge, and slight of hand are like clouds of stardust obscuring the truth - that N/S/Ps are a void that can never be filled; and that will suck us in, crush and mangle us, and spit us out the other side - an unrecognizable version of the person we were before.

The author tells us how she encountered and fell haplessly into the world of her N/S/P - a man she had known for many years, but did not recognize for the void he really was. She explained how she finally managed to break free of the gravity, basically using the only tactic that works in such cases - complete and forced separation of the escape pod from the cargo hold carrying all of the emotional baggage weighing one down. No contact and indifference.

Nicely done. Thank you Zari!
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